![]() No matter what instrument is being used, the DWC wife must always keep in mind that the part most commonly on the receiving end, the buttocks, lay in close proximity to such vital areas as the kidneys and tailbone. I call this lecture and it adds an important component to the experience. Corporal punishment should always be supported with clear and precise description of why the punishment is being done. It should be extremely painful while it is being applied, and the area it was applied to should remain very tender for a period of time afterwards. There is no question that welts will be raised and bottoms bruised, but chastisement should never leave permanent marks.Ī dose of corporal punishment should have a dual effect. ![]() Some of the physical punishments described are meant to be painful. They do not involve torture, brutality, cruelty, or anything that could cause lasting harm. The training methods suggested do involve strict discipline, and strong doses of corporal punishment. There should never be any doubt in his mind about your ability to administer this punishment. He must always be aware that any rebellion or hesitation on his part will not be tolerated and will be met with additional punishment. In many instances your discipline will involve tasks and ordeals that he will find highly objectionable. Vigilance means being aware of almost everything he is doing and keeping your rules consistent and predictably enforced. The well-disciplined husband is a direct result of constant vigilance on the part of the wife. If the husband is allowed to dictate when he will or will not obey an order, then that leaves some question as to who is really in charge, doesn’t it? Once he has agreed to these terms and understands that the whole scene will end permanently if he is not cooperative, you are ready to begin. The first time he refuses to obey an order you need to stop and have a serious talk with him right then and there. He must render complete obedience to you with regard to disciplinary issues at all times and must be willing to carry out any and all orders you give him without question or hesitation. The first thing you must do is to explain the golden rule of your proposed (or existing) disciplinary relationship. You will also discover how a simple punishment session can act as a pressure release valve for both you and your husband. If he does what you say quickly and obediently, then you are well on your way to a new and interesting relationship. Familiarity with being subject to your discipline will grow over time and it may take a little while to reach the stage where immediate, full compliance can be expected. However, if this is new for you, it will take some practice. ![]() He should respond to your instructions for receiving discipline without argument. If he doesn’t cooperate, his desires may be more mental fantasy than a willingness to participate in the reality of it all. You may want to do some reality testing with your husband by trying out some of the following. ![]() But, you will eventually learn the most on your own. This article contains some useful ideas and perspectives. ![]() If your husband has asked you to try a woman-in-charge relationship and you have agreed, you have more going for you than many so-called “perfect” marriages. There are many men who entertain fantasies of being dominated by a forceful woman all their lives yet would not dare ask their wife to spank them for fear of her reaction. If you are reading this section your eventual goal is a relationship with your husband in which you hold the authority to give him the discipline you see fit. A detailed set of instructions and descriptions for women who are serious about instituting or improving good old-fashioned discipline in their homes follows. ![]()
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